Wednesday, August 28, 2013
Monkey movement
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Beats and baby
Thursday, July 18, 2013
Moving fast!
We are almost out of the first trimester! Woohoo! We will get to hear our monkeys heartbeat for the first time I'm less than 3 weeks. I can't wait! !
On another note...this will we went from only 3 fur kids to having 3 fur kids and two boys lol we have the nephews for 10 days so we went from nothing to a 9 and a 5 year old boy running around! Oy vay!
Monday, July 1, 2013
10 weeks...woohoo!
Thursday, June 27, 2013
The tides they are a' changin'
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
The greatest gift
In love!
Our first u/s pics and we are already head over heels! We saw a nice strong heartbeat, 140 beats/min. Our little blueberry is doubling in size every week! This made it very real that we are having a baby. I honestly don't know if I will have a complete grasp of the reality until we have a baby in our arms though. Having a surrogate is a blessing let me tell you...and its a little weird too because we don't feel anything, or see our own baby bump growing. But seeing that little tiny heart fluttering away...Oh that was mind blowing :-)
Monday, June 3, 2013
Cute Baby Stuff!
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
Great Beta numbers!!!
Monday, May 20, 2013
Looks positive to me...
Well, that many tests can't be wrong! 1st Beta today, then again Wednesday. I'm sure I will be a better blogger now that I will have so much more to share! :-)
Saturday, May 18, 2013
BFP! ! !
Omg! This is what our surrogate surprised us with yesterday! She sent a box with my mother for us to open. Inside was a baby blanket, an adorable outfit and these! ! !
Monday, May 6, 2013
Third time's a charm!
Ok...Guido it's time to do your thing! Dr said our TS Follicles and lining looked great! He was happy with Guido and said count appeared to be "as advertised" lol TS also said the Dr mentioned the possibility of twins :-) if only we could be so lucky! ! Shorty and I weren't able to be there today for the IUI but sending baby dust for sure! Also the last two times the catheter was not so easy to get into her cervix but this time it went in nice and easy! !
I am remaining hopeful! It's all I can do so that I don't make myself crazy. The two weeks between a negative pg test and the next IUI are very difficult emotionally but then we do another IUI and I'm suddenly renewed with hope. That's the roller coaster off TTC up and down emotions. It's what we signed on for I guess.
Fingers and toes crossed, baby dust baby dust baby dust! !
Sunday, April 21, 2013
2nd Big Fat Negative...
Friday, April 19, 2013
waiting but....
Sunday, April 7, 2013
I usually hate Monday's
Sunday, March 31, 2013
Friday, March 22, 2013
The bitch arrived
Ok so the bitch arrived today which means joy is officially not pregnant this cycle. Honestly...I kind of don't feel anything. I am used to the negative test so it just feels like just another day...school, work, not pregnant. So two weeks, again. We will try try again until we decide it just isn't meant to happen and we adopt. I have faith that we will get pregnant, hopefully sooner than later, but I think it will happen.
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
not today...
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Isn't it Tuesday yet???
Sunday, March 10, 2013
Saturday, March 9, 2013
My wife tried to knock up another woman today....
Friday, March 8, 2013
Its here. ..
*singing* tomorrow, tomorrow, I love ya tomorrow, you're only a day away! That's right. .. tomorrow is IUI try #1! Fingers and toes crossed and baby dust our way please! !
Monday, February 25, 2013
Tony has been ordered
Friday, February 22, 2013
The bitch...
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Contracts
Monday, February 18, 2013
Just an update
We got news today that all systems are go we are just waiting for the cycle to begin so it is getting closer to insemination day I walk around with a little ball knot in my stomach knowing the day keeps getting closer and closer but then it will be here done and then that little ball knot will be the size of a football for 10 days waiting to know if we are parents to be. Thank you to all of you who are following this blog and sharing our journey with us. I am already coming up with ideas for our pregnancy positive pictures.
Thursday, February 14, 2013
moving forward
Friday, February 1, 2013
This and that
Today I got the news that our paperwork was getting started. I can't believe we are one step closer to getting this journey underway. Part of me wants to jump out of my skin and scream with excitement but the other half knows the pain of being let down so I guess I am being reserved until we actually start. I have started looking at different things and wondering how I would handle them when asked by our child. I know that is so far down the road but I still think about it. I know Kandi is jumping and I don't want anyone to think that I am not equally as happy because I am I just waiting a bit. I can't believe that my amazing wife and I might have a family here in months. I can't believe that I will get to raise a child with this wonderful amazing women. I believe we will raise one hell of a kid with a great personality. I can't wait for us to be parents I really can't. I can't wait to hold our baby in my arms and no that no one can take him/her away from me that we are bonded for life. I can't wait to teach them the importance of family and how loved they are by us and that they can do anything they set their minds to. As much as I am going to enjoy seeing who they turn out to be I will cherish all the little moments along the way to them getting there.
I haven't said much to Joy straight on only through Kandi since they talk a lot more. But Joy I don't even know how to begin to tell you how much this means to me. Ever since I was a kid I wanted to me a mom. I dreamed about it talked with my sisters about it my friends and we even came up with the names we would name them. I had a really hard life with abuse and I always swore that when I had a child that child would never know one single ounce of the pain I felt and that their life would be showered with love, support, guidance, and whatever they needed at no time would they feel alone. When I discovered I was gay I didn't know if I would ever get the dream of mother hood since I knew it would be harder to achieve. I also thought that I would have to be married with a partner in order to even consider that option. After several failed relationships I decided to go it alone and tried to get pregnant both times ending in miscarriage. That is devastating and I didn't know how I would get through it but I did with time. My PTSD requires me to be on a ton of meds that I would have to come off of if I were to try to get pregnant again. Which we are both scared about. After the last miscarriage my cycle has been off they tell me that I can carry but I don't think I am even ovulating. Each time Kandi and I tried or had to go to Medford to the DR our journey over would be full of excitement and talk of baby and our dreams and each time on our way back would be tears and sadness. I hated not being able to help or do something to make Kandi feel better. We started to think of life without a child and that is when we put out our last plea to help us and that is when you came along and made our lives turn upside down. It takes a special kind of person that is willing to give us a gift of life a gift without them would not be attainable a dream that would just be a dream. I have been let down and hurt so many times by people I tend to lose faith in humanity at times. but this, this not only restores my faith but it is going to allow me to realize my dream of being a mom. Now I know there are no guarantees but at least I once again have hope. I don't know how we can ever repay you for this but I want you to know that I love you with all my soul for going on this journey with us. You are special and all I can say is Thank you.